Ratio of Male to Female in a community > Forums at the FrumCommunity.com > Forums and Blogs at the Frum Community: "Being able to only see things from one perspective, I don't know whether it is easier for men or women to find shidduchim. It does seem to me, however, that in both cases shidduchim today focus too much on calculating the benefits of a marriage instead of actually looking at attraction and love (both in a purely Torah way, not the ridiculous secular notion!) and the binding of two neshomos.
I myself fit into an unsual category. I am young guy who is very in touch with the beautiful aspects of the secular world (yes, they do exist if you make sure to view them from the correct perspective) and is doing my utmost to make sure that I do hishtadlus to earn a parnossa and such. However, at the same time, I plan on heading to Israel after I complete my masters to learn for 4 or 5 years, after which I aim to make a parnossa hopefully through spreading Torah around the world."
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